Love & its Fears

Love, the word itself has always been vastly misinterpreted. Somewhere it is read as synonym of commitments, fun or sex; whereas elsewhere it is judged as the ultimate way of slow-self-destruction.
Love has always been associated with fear lurking at the back of the head, the fear of getting betrayed, losing or even breaking up. Fear of falling in love or Fears after being in love, either ways it is 'Fear' that is dominant. Whereas in reality, true love rises endless opportune and infinite success, with all those Fears torn apart into the back of one's mind. Well, it may seem poetic but there's a bit more of science in it than we actually think.

• True Love, in the first place doesn't mean finding the right partner who makes you feel complete. It means to live the present full, being positive and finding the center of one's life. All this comes from the balance of one's conscience.
  
• Once one's conscience is stable, the urge to 'feel-good-as-myself' gains and chances being in a positive circle increases.
• Then just like the old alchemy saying ''Like dissolves Like'' the vibrations find a similar positive center around. 
• Once found, the emotion itself would silence all the fears in its own tiny yet intense ways and before one realizes, they end up healed being in love.
  

It's just that the emotional sides of us are messed up by those erratic songs, movies that hover around the television and our minds alike. While scientists say 'Loving and Being Loved' is a natural urge in humans, but we no-matter-what cling to our excuses, superstitions or fears about love that makes us either harsh or desperate about it. It bothers such, that we forget the basic of all. One's salvation can never be reached by another person unless and until the former loves oneself to the core, forgiving  and letting to spread one's wings. Love gives us immense strength, that one couldn't have had on their own, ever. And with strength comes immense spirit that makes the hawk glide through the skies even in rough winds and highest terrain.
True enough to say Love Brings Out Everything Good In and Around Us.